I know that this may not be your first choice, but when you have kids sometimes it’s good to just let loose. Nap times are perfect for whatever your into or just feeling that day. I am a huge fan of call of duty, it’s so much fun almost like getting out of the house talking to people from all over.
I’m not saying bail out
Now I know what you may be thinking this is just some sort of cop out to get out of sex. No and Yes, I know that we as woman are not always in the mood and rather than hurt you spouses feelings just redirecting is a better alternative. This quarantine can be about what you make it, me personally I am taking time to get to know my husband all over again. I want us to be able to connect on a different type of level, not that we already don’t but you get my drift.
I know that by now you are really going through it with your spouse. Not as an argumentative type og going through it but the more loving kind. Yes we are all adults the correct term for it is SEX. I’ve learned that being cooped up with my husband that’s all he thinks about. I’m okay with it but i’m not a bicycle ya know. SO I have come up with different things to do with your spouse other than sex.
Board Games( For the game Lovers)
Video Games (For my techy moms)
Netflix(Careful with the titles)
Trails (I’m a Nature Lover)
Tik Tok (Let’s have some fun)
Spa Night (We all need some TLC)
Let’s get personal
Me I would prefer to binge watch on Netflix it makes for a great conversational piece. Sitting her watching a movie with my husband just makes me a chatty kathy. There is so much that you are taking in. I just feel like share, share, share.
I know a lot of woman will agree when I say that this quarantine has been hell. I knew that in the beginning it was going to be hard when my husband had to stay home. Hard in the terms of he has ADHD and so he has to stay active or he becomes a Nagitha Kristie. Just yap yap yap. We generally avoid this but being as though we literally have nothing to do. We are stuck and so we have been trying to cope with everything.
Then you throw kids in the mix its hell on wheels but at least they keep him occupied for the most part. You know how sometimes when people get stuck with each other for a long period of time. They start to get on each others nerves, now I know some people that would beg to differ. (appearances) I am going to be bluntly honest, my husband has been driving me up a wall. At first I couldn’t make sense of it because when he was always at work I missed him. Then I was kinda complaining because I did miss him. Now I have come to realization that we have just been stuck in the same place each other. There is absolutely the worst thing ever if I watch another Netflix stream I might just lose my eyes.
Now we have come up with different things to help keep us busy during quarantine. Its not as bad as before, I wanted to Bart Simpson strangle him. For him annoying me is all in good fun. Sometimes he complains that I need to smile more. Obviously my husband is the playful overboard. He always means well and always makes me smile so I’m good there.
I hope that after quarantine when things get moving again. We can get back to where we were. Until then I can make it, he’s not going to get my sanity lol. Once moms lost it dads not far behind. 😜
So we are literally driving and I’m talking to my kids but I’m not getting any feedback. So my husband and I are like are they sleep? His guess is as good as mine. Of course I’ll check because dads driving that excludes him from mom duties right.
To our surprise they were all sleeping which is odd but they were probably tired. So this is like a never happening thing and now me and my husband are looking like what now.
What do you do when the kids are asleep and it’s just you and dad. I dont believe that we have given that any thought because this is like never for us. So now we have to think of something fun.
Guess That Song
Who Am I
See How Much They Know About You
Please remember that this is in all good fun and I dont want you to lose your mind over this. It’s really simple there are many many more depending on the type of spouse you have. My husband is a complete goofball so anything goes with him.
I am really good at guess this song I would say that he is okay he would argue he is awesome. Yea typical dad taking all the shine. Just kidding dads dont hate me. You guys are awesome.
What are some cool games that you and your spouse might play in the car when the kids are sleeping? Talking doesnt really count.