One Of Those Days

I’m having one of those days where I just want to go go go. Literally I feel like I’m losing my mind. My 10M old is sick and constantly cries all though when she first became sock she didnt cry as much.

Now I feel like every other hour on the hour she’s crying. In some cases there is nothing you can do. This is one of them after you do everything that you could possibly do. After giving your child a remedy you have to literally wait it out and make sure that they are okay.

The anticipation of waiting does not take that long. I think it’s just all in your head. I have always hated sick days because then I feel helpless as if I am not able to help my child. In reality I am helping her by staying by her side until them remedy kicks in which ever solution you may have chosen.

Traits of A Partner

What’s Love Got To Do With It

-Tina Turner

Finding love can be somewhat of a hard task I mean you love who you love but in some cases maybe love is not enough. When looking for love you have to make sure that the person you may be seeking is compatible with you and have attributes that you my like, maybe even love them for. Most people look for partners with either one or the following.

  • Trustworthy
  • Loyalty
  • Stability
  • Compassion for others

Now this may be just me when it comes to compassion for others I am a real stickler for people who are rude and obnoxious to others it’s just not necessary. For us these components are of the upmost importance. It determines they relationship pretty much.

Trust Me

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Not everyone is trustworthy and only time will tell that if you pay attention to people rather than being in a state of lust things will become commonly clear. If you have found someone who is always been truthful this is a plus. Being with someone who is untruthful makes a person crazy because you never know when they are telling the truth even in urgent situations. When you are untruthful you have to constantly be that way because now you have to build on the lies that you have already secured for the foundation.

No One Wants A Person Who Constantly Lies


It’s hard as is trying to find someone who will be loyal to you or do things that would otherwise compromise what you have. Disloyalty can cause a rift in a relationship but also goes hand in hand with trust. Once a person has been caught being disloyal there may not be a way for the other person to bounce back from the downfall. Something like this can have a huge impact on your relationship.

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When you think of stability what comes across your mind, if you are stable and seeking a partner he\she should be stable as well. You cannot build a house while carrying your partner not unless you are willing too. Stability ties into money as well if there is no steady income coming in this can cause rifts as well. Majority of relationship issues stem off of money.

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This is always a plus for us we love to see how people interact with other people it says a lot about there character. Actions speak louder than words so if you feel like they are for you then go for it. If you see something that’s not settling in with you then say something. Normally we as humkans can see the early signs whether we want to or not.

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Finding the right person can be a hard task and sometimes they find you. I would advise that throughout your search you keep this in mind and if you see signs don’t ignore them. Remember that there is a someone for everyone.

Question of The Day

When looking for a partner or when you were looking for your spouse what were some of the things you looked for?

Missing Tooth Blues

𝑳𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂 𝑻𝒐𝒐𝒕𝒉

Well guys today was a good day all the way up until Zanai had a melt down.

My sweet pea is always happy I love her smile it really brightens my day.

This was not a normal meltdown it was a Mommy My Tooth Meltdown! So it kind of started as a normal day, zani and I were just hanging out home when I am startled by a loud cry. “What is going on” I asked.

Mommy My Tooth!

What’s wrong with your tooth?

“It’s coming out, I need to go to the dentist so they can give me a new tooth because mine is falling out and I need a new tooth. Please Mom, daddy cant see me like this”.

What exactly do you say to that?

Wait what I mean come on what would be the most rational thing to say? Well in this case it’s my daughter so I am still kind of lost for words bare with me. Okay I got it lets call daddy, did anyone else catch that I used daddy a cover because I got stuck. The look on his face was priceless because she insisted after I said lets call daddy to call him through facebook.

Kids and Technology what are we going to do?

Losing Her Mind….

After talking to daddy she was in such a frantic state I didnt know what to say other than it will be okay sweetie. Did that make her feel better?

Nope, so what now?

Okay dad we’re gonna call you back. (Put my girl pants on) Okay look zani I have a story for you.

When we are little people we tend to lose our teeth it’s all a part of growing up. You may have lost this little guy buy you will have a new friend pretty soon.


So finally we have gotten to a point where she does in fact understand the process somewhat from how I explained it, Zuri shared her version as well. I am sad because I was so excited about taking birthday pictures but now our friend is gone. Oh well thats for a late post but welcome 5. Anyway I think she kind of liked zuri’s version better than mine but hey she’s not crying or having a tantrum so I think we are good for now.


We lost a tooth what can be more fun. Now we gotta wait for the tooth fairy to come.