Walking The Line

In case you weren’t aware the time is now 11:12. Normal people are sleep right now but for me no such luck. If your new to my blog I suffer from insomnia. Majority of my nights are sleepless. If I do manage to get some sleep, if I am awakened then I can’t get back to sleep. This has been an ongoing issue and I want to say that it started after I had my second daughter. It has been going on for such a long time that it almost seems normal, but its not. I envy the people who have the ability to fall asleep and stay that way. You guys are truly lucky, that’s where I need to be.

Come in Solution

I know that this is not something that will just go away. I am normally not a person that takes medicine. I believe that for every medication the side effects are triple that and causes even further problems. That’s just me don’t send me any hate mail. I’m jisy joking, I’m a mom with a sense of humor of course, I’m only human. I have started taking melatonin because my body needs a good nights rest.

Well, spill the beans

Since I have been taking melatonin I worried about the side effects. Then I think that without it I may go back to constantly being awake. The good outweighed the bad in this situation. So fat nothing has happened, no I didn’t from a third arm. So I think its safe to say that I am going to make it.

It takes time

I have to say that when I take the melatonin it does not take effect immediately. Remember to give the vitamin 30 minutes. I hope that everyone has an awesome well deserved good nights rest. Stay safe ❤

Loc’n it Up

Sweet Embrace

For as long as I can remember I have always had a love for hair. Well mine that is. I only had one rule, no one plays in my hair but me. This prevented the inevitable part and avoids confrontation. If anything was to ever happen it would be my fault, and mine alone.

How old

Can you say that with time coming and going I grew out of this. I am beyond over this My Hair and Me feud.I have tried so many different things and now I simply want to be as comfortable as possible. Raising 3 girls can be more time consuming than most. When it came to morning routines, this became a problem. For me to get all my girls together, hair done would take more than an 2 hours. To me that’s just craziness but hey moms like me go through this A Lot.

See it?

So I started thinking what would be easy for me to maintain, manage, style, color, all the above. Locs of course now just wait I didn’t just come up with this. This took a great deal of time, and this is not my first rodeo with dreads might I add. About a year ago I started my locs only to combed them out. Don’t worry it was for good reason, my daughter was being bullied because of her afro. I combed my hair out too now we are twins my love.

No matter there Texture, Length, or Color of your hair, you are Beautiful Inside and Out

Regrets are not for me

If you asked me if I would do it again I would say yes each time, who cares how many times you have to start over. Now here I am again I have shaved all my hair off and grew it back to start my natural loc journey. So here goes nothing the only part that I am really going to hate would be the wiggly worms part, that’s until they grow that is. Going into this Yes I was really scared, because I was going to get them professionally done but then I thought why? I can save money do them myself and learn how to do starter loc’s myself. This doesn’t always pan out because styles like these are easier done on you than other people. Now that I have done them on myself I actually find it very easier and I will be able to keep retwisting my own hair.

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Traits of A Partner


What’s Love Got To Do With It

-Tina Turner

Finding love can be somewhat of a hard task I mean you love who you love but in some cases maybe love is not enough. When looking for love you have to make sure that the person you may be seeking is compatible with you and have attributes that you my like, maybe even love them for. Most people look for partners with either one or the following.

  • Trustworthy
  • Loyalty
  • Stability
  • Compassion for others

Now this may be just me when it comes to compassion for others I am a real stickler for people who are rude and obnoxious to others it’s just not necessary. For us these components are of the upmost importance. It determines they relationship pretty much.

Trust Me

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Not everyone is trustworthy and only time will tell that if you pay attention to people rather than being in a state of lust things will become commonly clear. If you have found someone who is always been truthful this is a plus. Being with someone who is untruthful makes a person crazy because you never know when they are telling the truth even in urgent situations. When you are untruthful you have to constantly be that way because now you have to build on the lies that you have already secured for the foundation.

No One Wants A Person Who Constantly Lies

Loyal

It’s hard as is trying to find someone who will be loyal to you or do things that would otherwise compromise what you have. Disloyalty can cause a rift in a relationship but also goes hand in hand with trust. Once a person has been caught being disloyal there may not be a way for the other person to bounce back from the downfall. Something like this can have a huge impact on your relationship.

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Stability

When you think of stability what comes across your mind, if you are stable and seeking a partner he\she should be stable as well. You cannot build a house while carrying your partner not unless you are willing too. Stability ties into money as well if there is no steady income coming in this can cause rifts as well. Majority of relationship issues stem off of money.

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Compassion

This is always a plus for us we love to see how people interact with other people it says a lot about there character. Actions speak louder than words so if you feel like they are for you then go for it. If you see something that’s not settling in with you then say something. Normally we as humkans can see the early signs whether we want to or not.

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Finding the right person can be a hard task and sometimes they find you. I would advise that throughout your search you keep this in mind and if you see signs don’t ignore them. Remember that there is a someone for everyone.

Question of The Day

When looking for a partner or when you were looking for your spouse what were some of the things you looked for?